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NATIONAL AWARD-WINNING · INCLUSIVE · NEUROAFFIRMING

Hello... I'm Sue

Creating beautifully personal, memorable ceremonies
for love, life and loss — from North Devon and beyond.

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​Rooted in Devon,
open to the world.

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I’m Sue Denham, a national award-winning, inclusive, independent celebrant who is lucky enough to call North Devon home.  

Whether you are planning a clifftop wedding, saying goodbye to someone deeply loved, celebrating your family through a naming ceremony, or marking one of life’s important milestones, I create ceremonies centred entirely around your story. Warm, relaxed, personal, joyful and always filled with meaning and love. I go wherever your story wants to be told.

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Before I became a celebrant, I spent 35 years in education, teaching in both the UK and the USA, leading schools and working alongside children, families and communities through some of life’s most joyful and challenging moments. Those years taught me something incredibly important. That the greatest gift we can offer another person is to truly listen, to hear what matters and to recognise the stories, relationships and memories that make each person unique.

That is still what I do. Every single day. Because being a celebrant is not about performing. It is about people. It is about reading a room, holding a moment, understanding what is unspoken as much as what is. It is about standing at the front with warmth and calm and total confidence, so that you don’t have to. That is what I bring to every single ceremony, creating something that feels honest, genuine and completely personal to you. There is no pressure to fit someone else’s version of how these moments should look.

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I came to this work having lived a great deal of life. I know what it is to be shattered - to be suddenly, shockingly widowed while my children were young. I know what it is to care for someone you love through serious illness, to face cancer myself, to begin again. I have navigated divorce, grief, reinvention and, eventually, extraordinary joy.

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Today, I am married to Paul, a brilliant, kind, hardworking, good man. Together we are the proud, occasionally chaotic parents of a blended family of six: my three grown boys, and three wonderful stepchildren who I love as fiercely. We share our home with a rescue dog, cats and an abundance of love.

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How I show up for you.

A Natural Storyteller

I love turning your memories into something beautifully told and truly felt.

Calm, reassuring presense

Especially important in life's more emotional and tender moments.

Creativity and care

No templates. No copy-and-paste. Just something completely and uniquely you.

Genuine connection

I take real time to get to know you — before, during and on the day itself.

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​I’m a certified romantic, rainbow lover, failed surfer, fierce advocate, sea-glass finder, sunset chaser, dog rescuer and crafter of things made by hand.

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It is the greatest privilege of my life to stand beside people in their most meaningful moments. The joyful ones, the tender ones, the heartbreaking ones, and those that are somehow, impossibly, all three at once.

Whatever your moment is, I will be by your side, and I will hold it with everything I have.

"I'm a real people-person — warm, smiley and led by heart. I specialise in creating heartfelt, joy-filled celebrations that reflect you, your story, your style, your way."

Watch My Podcast

Kate speaks to Sue about the magic and the joys of being a wedding celebrant and how she supports neuro divergent couples to have the wedding of their dreams.

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We have a chat

Free no-obligation call to get to

know each other.

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I write your ceremony

Personalised to your story, your way.

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We celebrate together

A ceremony you'll remember

forever.

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I'd love to hear from you.

Whether you're planning something special or navigating something difficult, you're very welcome to reach out for a relaxed, no-pressure conversation — share your thoughts, ideas or questions.

I'll be right here, by your side.

sue: 07837 988120

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Sue Denham is a national award winning celebrant creating joyful, personalised ceremonies for weddings, funerals, baby and child naming celebrations, adoptions and other meaningful life moments. She is known for her inclusive and compassionate approach, and is passionate about supporting neuroaffirming couples and families. Based in Devon, Sue works across Devon, Somerset, Cornwall and throughout the UK.

Business Project: Funding gratefully received from Business Boost 2  (through North Devon Council)

has supported the training, coaching, marketing and advertising of  Celebrant Sue by your side.

© 2026 Sue-ByYourSide.

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